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Monday, June 6, 2011

So?

What would you do?  What should I do?  I have spent a lot of time over the past few days thinking about what to do.  Tim's mom died suddenly a week or so ago (Tim is Jamie's darling boyfriend), and it started me thinking about the uncertainties in life.  The frailty of life.  The fact that we really have no control of our own destiny and that God determines our outcome.  When we are born and when we die.  It is out of our hands.

My brother, Tom, and his girlfriend, Krissy, kidnapped my Grandmother while I was in the hospital for purely financial reasons.  Krissy was paid over $65,000 during a 6 month period to "care for" Noni and Tom charged my Grandmother for "room and board."  Tom received over $150,000 from the Trust in addition to the $65,000 and room and board!

My Grandmother died on April 19th and up until that day, my focus, goal, whatever you want to call it was to bring my Grandmother home so that she did not have to die in a disgusting nursing home.  Which by the way, was her worst fear.

Now we are in settlement discussions.  The righteous part of me wants to make them pay.  I want to expose their dirty scam that takes advantage of the elderly in hopes that they will be stopped.  I want to keep going.  I want to have a trial and prove my innocence.

The little girl in me wants to stop because life is too short, and I have sacrificed and missed so much over the past two years.

What would you do?