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Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Noni's Garden


From the time I was a little girl, I remember spending hours and hours in Noni's garden.  It was our favorite place to be.  We grew apples, plums and strawberries, and my Grandfather always had a wonderful vegetable garden where he grew carrots, lettuce, basil, tomatos and beets.  My job was to water the garden and help "harvest the crops".




When I moved back to my Grandmother's house to take care of her after she was diagnosed with severe Alzheimer's dementia, the garden was the place that my Grandmother and I would go each day.  She would sweep, and I would garden.  We spent many hours together each day.  This picture and the one above were taken just before the conservators took over.




Once the conservators took over and hired the unqualified, uncertified caretakers to care for Noni, the caregivers could not be bothered with the garden and did not care that it was my Grandmother's favorite place.  They would not allow her access to the garden, but they did allow the weeds to grow despite the fact that I literally begged them to hire someone to come in and cut them down.  I even offered to do it myself but they would not allow me to be with my Grandmother.  Below are pictures taken in the neglected garden last April.  I found a large dead rat in the backyard the day I took these pictures.

Weeds grew to well over 4 feet before the conservator finally hired someone to tend to the garden.  Shortly after that Noni had a stroke, was hospitalized and never returned to her home on 11th Avenue.  She is now in a GOD AWFUL nursing facility-Laurel Heights Convalescent Hospital.  The conservators and their attorneys refuse to allow her to go home. Instead they want to sell the house in order to pay for the outrageous, unwarranted fees and charges they have incurred in just 16 months:

$600,000! 

 Below are more pictures of garden after the conservators took over...

Monday, March 14, 2011

Warning Signs of Conservator Abuse

Conservatorship/Guardianship = Conserve/Guard

To guard "incapacitated" or "incompetent" people from harming themselves and to conserve their assets and property.

If someone you know needs help with their assets or property there are several warning signs to look for...signs that they might be having problems with a conservator or guardian.

-  The guardian-conservator treats you as an outsider instead of a relative, friend or loved one.

-  Your loved one does not get his or her mail.

-  The guardian-conservator sees to it your loved one does not have access to a phone.

-  When you visit, the guardian "hovers" or even employs someone to hover so you are not alone
    with your loved one.

-  If your loved one is in a nursing home, you are only allowed to visit in the dining room or
   recreation room.

-  Your loved one appears to be more sluggish, perhaps even dazed.

-  You start seeing questionable documents and realize financial accounts are closed or changed
    and the statements have been diverted to the guardian-conservator.

-  You discover the taxes have not been paid...or even filed.

-  The nursing facility tells you when you visit you "upset" your family member or upset the staff.

-  You are denied input about your loved one's care - the doctor will not talk to you - you are
    shut out.

-  Items are missing from your loved one's home.

-  The guardian-conservator refuses to take your call or answer your questions.


    Provided by National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse

Sunday, March 13, 2011

The Conservator

They call themselves conservators and fi-doo-she-aries,
They spend all the money then sell the house if you please.
Approved by the court, and they don't even care,
Taking advantage of the elderly, it's really not fair.
  
The attorneys are worse if you can believe that,
You know hogs get slaughtered and pigs just get fat.
Isolation and medication, just slip them a pill,
They take the helpless prisoner against their will.

Filing their petitions and sometimes a motion,
Always in the courtroom causing commotion.

So easy for them to fool their clients you see,
Stealing and lying comes to them so naturally.

They are heartless and driven by greed it's true,
I hope and pray that this never happens to you!
_________________________________

Dedicated to
 Elizabeth A. Adler, Adler Fiduciary Services
Herb Thomas, Herb Thomas and Associates

Both Ms. Adler and Mr. Thomas are professional conservators
as well as fiduciaries currently stealing from the elderly and
destroying families all over the Bay Area including mine.

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Happy Birthday Nono!

March 12th is my Grandfather's birthday.
Nono... I think of you every day and wish so
much that you were here.  I love and miss you.
Lori

gone yet not forgotten
although we are apart
your spirit lives within me

forever in my heart. -unknown

          

BEWARE!

Beware of these San Francisco Probate 
Fiduciaries, Conservators and Attorneys:

Elizabeth Adler
Professional Fiduciary and Conservator

Lawrence Siracusa

Witherspoon & Siracusa, Elizabeth Adler's Attorney

Herb Thomas

Professional Fiduciary and Conservator

Elvira Orly

Herb Thomas' Attorney

Bruce Feder

Court Appointed Attorney

Brian McCaffery

Elizabeth Adler's Litigation Attorney

Anne Marie Paolini-Mori

Attorney

Emilie Calhoun

Attorney

Charles K. Lewis
Attorney


For Sale - 1462 11th Avenue

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Elizabeth Adler, Professional Conservator and Fiduciary
 has decided that our family's house is UNRENTABLE!